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What Listeners Are Saying
“Bela is simply the best dating coach-fairy godmother out there ! She brings the joy into the often daunting world of dating and with humor! A+!”
By I Collins
“Bela Gandhi is America’s favorite dating coach for a reason! She knows what you need to know about dating and love so that you can find that lid to your pot!”
By CaliGal44
“Bela is full of great ideas and data based wisdom on dating. She’s also warm, kind, caring, a true “ elevator” person. The podcasts and IG live will leave you feeling motivated and give real world “to do” strategies.”
By Johy18
“I love listening to all of Bela’s podcasts. It’s not just about dating but also about different parts of your life such as self awareness and building your own business! Thank you, Bela!”
By Brittany
“I wait with bated breath for new episodes to be dropped. I love all of Bela’s content. Her dating advice is spot on, and her guests provide inspiration and insight. Thank you, Bela sharing your wisdom with us!”
By Caroline Eaton
“Bela has earned her way as a household name across the nation…and it is no accident. She is a master at her craft, offers knowledgeable dating advice based on real life data, and is the most humble human! Most people put faith in a higher power or look for signs from the universe to guide their destiny or direct them towards finding the lid to their pot. Look no further, Bela IS your soul mate seeker.”
By isabellaOshani~
“Bela manages to entertain AND educate- she uses real world examples instead of just theories. She has helped me see so many patterns in my relationships and encourages listeners to work on creating heathy, joyful lives. This isn’t just for those poking for love- everyone has benefit from this podcast!”
By CJAllDressedUp
“One of my friends told me about this show and even though I am a happily married woman, I am loving these podcasts. Yes, Bela is all about helping men and women find love, but these podcasts are really about RELATIONSHIP. Not just with your spouse, partner or date, but also with friends, co-workers and relatives. A narcissist is a narcissist. A weekly dose of Bela is entertaining, fun, informative and Smart Dating Academy has quick turned into one of my favorite podcasts.”
By Lauren FS
“Smart Dating Academy podcast is so insightful, thoughtful and necessary to help navigate the dating world. Bela’s Ted Talk is quite extraordinary also and I’ve shared that with all my single friends. She really shines a light on how to cut through the wrong people and make better choices. I love the IG account also. If you’re dating, this podcast is the best one out there, and I’ve listened to a few. Bela, you’re awesome!”
By Best PT Ever!
“Bela is so kind and genuine. I love how she includes all ages, those in their 20s, middle aged like myself and those older like my mom. The emphasis on dating slowly and not rushing into bed. Pure gold. Thank you so much Bela 😍.”
By Karen
“I listened to Bela on her IG live for a long time and was so thrilled to hear she is now doing a podcast. Bela always seems to touch on a sensitive and relevant dating or relationship issue and sees every angle. She has an amazing ability to understand single life these days as well as the pain of breakups and also demonstrates a respect for remaining single. Totally worth a shot!”
By UWSdonna
“This podcast series has absolutely shifted something in me as a 50+ woman dating in the world today. Bela and her smart crew point out insights and information that is absolutely key to unlocking the mysteries in how to find love. I have asked for years ‘why can’t I find a great guy?’ My picker was busted: I was a narcissist dater!! I understand myself better and get the ‘why’ in my ‘why can’t I meet a great guy’. And now as a result of listening to this series, while sitting in LA traffic, I understand myself so much better and look forward to finding love. What a gift. Thank you Bela and Crew!!!!”
By AMkline
The Latest Episodes
I’m so excited to share this week’s powerful story, featuring a journey of resilience, radical self-growth, and finding remarkable love later in life. In this unforgettable episode, you’ll meet our client Shari—a vibrant, creative powerhouse who, after divorce and two breakups with the same man, rewrote her love story at 64.
In this rich, soul-stirring conversation, Bela sits down with Arielle Ford—bestselling author, spiritual teacher, and modern-day love alchemist—to talk about her first novel, The Love Thief. Part spiritual romance, part thriller, this story takes readers on a wild emotional ride through heartbreak, karma, and ultimately, deep healing.
In this honest, hilarious, and totally validating convo, I sit down with Meredith Goldstein—beloved Boston Globe advice columnist and author of the “Love Letters” column and podcast—to unpack the messy, magical, and maddening ways we fall for each other in today’s world.
What if flirting wasn’t awkward, dating didn’t feel like a second job, and attracting love could be playful and powerful?
In this episode of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast, I sit down with the dazzling Lauren Frances, and let me tell you—she brings the magic.
In this episode, I sit down with internationally recognized dating and relationship coach Angela Nicole Holton for a heart-opening, no-fluff conversation about what it really takes to attract lasting, authentic love.
Let’s face it—first dates can be awkward. You’re sitting across from someone new, trying to figure out if there’s a spark… while also wondering what the heck to say next. Sound familiar?
In Part 2 of our juicy conversation, I’m back with the brilliant Lindsay Anderson, one of Smart Dating Academy’s most beloved coaches, and we’re continuing our deep dive into how to absolutely crush it on a first date.
Ever wonder what makes a truly great date, and what are the best questions to ask (and how)? In this must-listen episode (part 1 of 2), the brilliant and longstanding Smart Dating Academy coach Lindsay Anderson and I sit down to break down the art of dating with confidence, ease, and authenticity.
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jane Greer, a renowned marriage and family therapist, psychotherapist, and author of Am I Lying to Myself? How to Overcome Denial and See the Truth. With decades of experience helping people navigate love, loss, and trust, Dr. Greer reveals how denial and betrayal shape our relationships and how to break free from patterns that hold us back.
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud, a world-renowned clinical psychologist, leadership expert, and New York Times bestselling author of Boundaries—a book that has transformed the way millions navigate relationships.