Episode 190: How Michelle Found Love in Australia through Instagram | Dating After Divorce Success Story

Finding love again after heartbreak can feel impossible, especially when you’ve spent years doing the inner work but still haven’t found your person.

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Smart Dating Academy founder Bela Gandhi sits down with Dr. Michelle Roberts, therapist, former client, and now a true success story, to share how she went from helping others heal from toxic relationships to finally finding healthy, lasting love herself.

What makes this story even more incredible? Michelle lives in Portland, OR and met her husband overseas, in Australia… on Instagram.

This is not just a love story. It is a masterclass in emotional availability, dating after divorce, and trusting that love is still possible even when you’ve almost given up. And falling in love using video chat works.

From Relationship Expert to Hopeful Believer Again

Michelle spent years as a therapist helping clients recover from narcissistic abuse and unhealthy relationships. But behind the scenes, she questioned whether love was truly possible for herself.

In this episode, she opens up about:

Why even relationship experts can struggle to find love
The emotional impact of past trauma and heartbreak
What finally shifted her mindset from doubt to belief, and what happened when she worked with Smart Dating Academy

How She Found Love Overseas on Instagram

Michelle’s love story didn’t follow a traditional dating path, and that’s exactly why it worked.

You’ll learn:

How expanding your dating “funnel” can change everything
Why being open to unexpected connections is key to finding love
How social media can lead to real, meaningful relationships

This is a powerful reminder that love doesn’t always come from dating apps or your immediate circle. Sometimes, it shows up in ways you never imagined.

The Mindset Shift That Changed Everything

One of the biggest breakthroughs Michelle shares is how she moved from fear and skepticism into emotional availability and openness.

Key takeaways:

Why healing is necessary but not the final step
How to recognize when you’re truly ready for a healthy relationship
The difference between chemistry and compatibility
How to trust yourself again after heartbreak

Dating Advice for High-Achieving Professionals

If you are a successful, driven person who feels stuck in your dating life, this episode is for you.

Bela and Michelle break down:

Dating tips for professionals who don’t want to settle
How to avoid repeating old patterns
What high-value dating really looks like, and how Smart Dating Academy guides the process
How to stay open without compromising your standards

Proof That Love Is Possible for You

Michelle’s story is living proof that no matter your past, your age, or how long it’s been, you can find love again.

This episode will leave you feeling hopeful, empowered, and ready to approach dating in a completely new way. And maybe think about a dating coach for yourself!

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