Listen to Tom Blake, dating columnist and author offer his wisdom to women from a man's perspective about Dating Over 50.
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Listen to this incredibly authentic episode with somatic trauma practitioner Karlee Holden and Bela. Karlee specializes in helping people for the last 20 years in poor relationships develop better boundaries, overcome anxiety and overthinking, more self-love and self worth to create the life they want!
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In this mini episode, you'll hear what the nudge text is, how to use it, and how a Smart Dating Academy client got married by using it! You won't want to miss this -- you could be one nudge text away from finding the lid to your pot!
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Listen to this awesome mini episode where Bela tells you what the newest trend of "BEIGE FLAGS" are. What are your 'beige flags', and when can a beige flag turn into a red flag? Tune in for a succinct answer to this question, and know EXACTLY what to look for!
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In this mini episode, you'll hear the most awesome, easy way to get over your sadness, grief, heartbreak & disappointment about your breakup! And it'll take you no time to do the exercise Bela recommends - listen NOW to amp up your healing!
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According to new studies, what is the #1 Relationship Killer (spoiler alert - it's NOT money or infidelity) according to 46% of divorcing couples? To answer the question, we invited Susan Guthrie, divorce attorney with over 30 years of experience and host of the "Divorce and Beyond" podcast to talk to us about it.
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In this episode, Kate Anthony, Divorce Coach and Host of "The DIvorce Survival Guide Podcast" tells us about the 21st century narcissist.
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This week's episode is a FUN one with Erin Keating who talks about her tips on being "Hotter Than Ever." Erin tells the story about how she blew up her life at age 50 and started to reinvent herself to become a more authentic version of myself TODAY (rather just living in the results of the goals she had for myself and my life 20 years ago). She also describes her unconventional dating "Rumspringa" the year following my separation (her year to explore and 'sow her wild oats'), and 4 things you can do to be Hotter than Ever.
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This episode is a wonderful, inspiring story of Midore T, who lives in NYC. Midore saw Bela on a national NBC show called, "1st Look" and knew she needed to enlist some help with her dating life. She is now happily married to John, and tells her story in detail.
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Bela has an amazing conversation with somatic coach Sarah Baldwin about getting "unstuck" and it's NOT what you expect. You will LOVE this episode, and learn SO much.
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Bela has an incredible interview with one of her personal heroes, Megan Ramos, best-selling author of "The Essential Guide to Intermittent Fasting for Women."
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In this episode, Holly Capps Cayce will tell you her ENTIRE love story which started with her parents' perfect marriage (leading to her marriage in her 20s which was NOT perfect). After two decades of dating narcissists, and lots of other characters, Holly took the leap and did the Smart Dating Academy "Love Lab Workshop" - which started her journey to finding David, the lid to her pot!
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This episode will get you happy and PSYCHOTICALLY OPTIMISTIC! Bela interviews happiness coach Steffani LeFevour on how happiness, regardless of WHAT is happening, is only a few decisions away.
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Arielle Ford is one of the best known love gurus out there, and returns to the Smart Dating Academy podcast to talk soulmates, how to connect with your soulmate even before you meet, what the quantum field is and how our soulmate is looking for US too.
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Have trouble with difficult conversations? Get tongue tied, get angry, or always give in? On a date with someone who won't stop talking? This episode will help you manage yourself so you can say almost anything in a way that brings the relationship to a better place. Bela interviews prolific author/TedX speaker & coach Sam Horn, whose new book "Talking on Eggshells" helps with everything you're afraid of saying.
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Bela explains the TOP things to do to make a great first impression, and the WORST things that will get you thrown back to the pond immediately. Tune in for this gem-filled, high energy episode!
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This episode is amazing, and Bela chats with the brilliant, prolific author Amy Ferris (author of "Mighty Gorgeous, A Little Book About Messy Love). You'll hear her best, grooviest advice, her love lessons, why people-pleasing is so detrimental, how to "Own Your Life", why "Self Love is Good Love is Grand Love is Love", and why we shouldn't waste time.
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In this episode, I invited Andy, my husband of 26 years to join me on the podcast.
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This love story is epic, from the way our client Lilah and Bela met (in a Limited store fitting room), to Lilah's Smart Dating journey to meeting the third and final love of her life, the handsome Dani.
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In this episode, you will indeed learn the secrets to getting along with everyone better - from new dates, existing partners, colleagues, friends, kids and more! Gabrielle's YES method is unveiled, and Bela and her discuss strategic gems to using conflict to get ALL relationships to a better place!
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