THE ONE YOU’VE BEEN WAITING FOR!

NEW!! “Dating During Midlife” Love Lab

This 3 hour session over Zoom on 9/15/25 will teach, inspire and help you to master Dating During Midlife! Scroll to the bottom of this page to get your spot!

Note: We have not had a live group session in a YEAR so do not miss this as they are VERY few and far between! You’ll be with Lindsay Anderson and Bela Gandhi.

Holly Capps’ Love Story

“I got married on June 10th at 56 years old! I started with a Love Lab because I heard Bela on a podcast helping another single woman in her 50s (who got married). After hearing Bela, I knew I needed to change things up and invest in myself, the same way I had done for my career. I bought a seat to the Love Lab and loved every minute. In fact, I was so inspired by this Love Lab that I decided to do their whole 12 month GPQ™ coaching program afterward. I found love with David, and met him online (look at our new wedding pics, and us at the Kentucky Derby)! He is the most thoughtful, kind, amazing man in the world. DO THE LOVE LAB - you will NOT be sorry!” - Holly

How to Stop Feeling Hopeless in 3 Hours & FIND THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE

Have you looked in the mirror and said "I really thought I would have been in love by now at my age!! I’m thick into ‘midlife’ and I can NOT believe I’m still alone. I swear everyone has found someone - even friends who got divorced ten minutes ago! What’s wrong? Why can’t I find someone? I’m a great catch, and this is NOT how I pictured my life”  

If this sounds like you, you’re not alone and this message is for you!  Here’s why….

If You Don’t Do Something About It, It Just Gets Worse 

And here's the hard truth - this problem will not magically solve itself –– it keeps getting worse because the hands of time keep ticking forward, no matter how much we want to slow them down. 

If you keep doing the same thing you've done, where do you think you’re going to be around the holidays? With a date cozied up by the blazing fire? No. 

You’ll be in the same place, even more frustrated and lonely. You’ll be a little older, looking in that same mirror with even more regret.  Still alone and frustrated.

How WE Can START TO Solve Your Love Problem (like I did for these people)

I'm going to tell you something you can do to change that today - that's going to take a giant step towards the love, passion, romance and companionship you've been craving for so long, that you deserve - and best of all? You don't even need to leave your house to do it. 

Here's the deal.

I started Smart Dating Academy nearly 16 years ago, and have been blessed to teach hundreds of thousands of people how to date smarter over the last decade - both through our coaching practice and via every major TV network (Steve Harvey, Good Morning America, the TODAY Show, Kelly Clarkson, CNN, FOX, ABC, NBC, and the list goes on). 

Like Marilyn, who was over 50, who had been married to two different narcissists and she was scared. It didn’t take us long to beautifully transform her profile – and she had a bigger response online than she had ever had. Then it all changed.  She got a message from a guy named Jim, and the rest, including their engagement, was seriously magical. And, she got married in Key West and couldn’t be happier! Listen to her full podcast episode HERE

All of these coaching clients above were single in midlife. Courtney (far left) was convinced there were NO respectful men left. Ruth (with the red scarf) was mourning the loss of her husband, and wondered if love could ever happen again. Nicky wanted to get married and have kids - and was worried that would be improbable as a successful, educated woman. Tara (on the far right) was divorced and had battled cancer — wondering if she should just stick to being a lawyer and give up on love. Courtney found her partner in a most unexpected package, Ruth found love in her 70s, Nicky in her 30s and Tara in her 40s! And, we can’t invent this stuff — they’ve ALL been on our podcast to tell their love stories!!

Because our clients find love, we've had so many people want to work with us, but they couldn't swing high fees for a personal coach.

SO, a light bulb went off in my head.  "What if we could work with groups of people in Zoom workshops, teach them our methods and build community in 3 hours?”

What if we could teach them our secret daily dating routine that makes dating fun, inspiring and manageable! And, what if we could teach the group tricks to walk into their dates with confidence? My team said, “Let’s do it!”

That is exactly how we created the "Love Lab” concepts. Dating During Midlife is awesome, and people LOVE the information we teach, and the private Q&A time to get ALL of their burning questions answered. Especially in this crazy world of people talking about finding love with an AI-Bot, we want to assure you that that’s NOT true! You can find love with a real human, in the flesh!

Donna from Washington said that our Love Labs gave her the tools for the first time to feel great about online dating!

There was Barbara in her 70s who did a Love Lab , and met an AMAZING man that they share a life with in both the Midwest and California.

Ken launched his first online profile ever right after the Love Lab, and had a date lined up a few days later! 

Michelle found love already — and she’s over 65 years old :)

Nancy Hala (of the famous “Sheri & Nancy - This is 50!” podcast enlisted Smart Dating Academy, and is now married to David Bruce (see our “Inspiring Stories” section for her WHOLE story), and listen to her podcast episode!

And Kathy, who is on our podcast (and tells her ENTIRE story - go listen to it NOW!) - I can’t invent this kind of stuff even if I tried! It’s 100% real. She’s 71, and thought it would NEVER happen!

KATHY’S STORY

“I’m 71 years old, and started with a Smart Dating Academy Love Lab workshop and loved it. I felt like I had tried everything else - and nothing was working for me after my divorce. After the Love Lab, I enlisted Bela & Ilene afterward, and followed their whole coaching program afterward. I found love with Ruben (at 71 years old!!) and I’ve never been happier. We live together and are going to have a commitment ceremony soon. He makes life fun, and is the love I dreamed of” - Kathy

Finally, It’s Your Turn - A BRAND NEW LOVE LAB FOR SINGLES IN MIDLIFE!

Your chance is here - don’t miss it!  This Love Lab workshop called “Dating During Midlife” is an amazing value.

You will learn everything you want to learn, AND, the benefit of being in an exclusive group is HEARING other people’s stories and THEIR questions (so amazing)!

When you attend this workshop, you will be with my team and me personally, LIVE. You will feel inspired, motivated, and ready to date in a different way! You will learn:

• Why Dating in Midlife is the BEST time to date!

• The biggest secret to being MAGNETIC — and you can implement it immediately, everywhere!

• How to pick your BEST photos so you start attracting the right people! 

• The best mindset to have, and how to be at peace about dating & love! Upon purchase of the Love Lab, we will send you a link to get Bela’s #1 book pick on mindset to get ready for the class! This book has changed her life, and will change yours too :)

• You will get our guide to writing the perfect profile AND instructions on how to use AI to make it even better! If you do the homework, you’ll leave the lab with amazing profiles!

• What to ALWAYS & NEVER say in your profile

• How to write great messages and when to STOP messaging someone!

• How to date SAFELY (avoiding frauds/ catfishers)

• How to date slowly and not make the same mistakes you’ve made again and again!

• Why video will NOT go away (and how to master it)

• How to use AI with crafting better messages

• How to answer some of the HARDEST questions in dating

• We will teach you secrets to beating the algorithms, and having fun dating -- where you spend as little as 15 minutes per day!  

Normally, these secrets and tools are only available to our high level coaching clients at $15,00-$20,000 dollars (yes YOU are worth it).. 

Remember I said it was a great deal? This 3 hour, inspire your socks off session is $997!

When you press register below, you will receive the private recording link via email, with a private password to log in.

It’s Decision Time

You have an important choice to make.  If you don't do something different now, think of where you'll be exactly one year from now.  You’ll most likely be single, one year older, and mad at yourself, wishing you didn’t let more time slip away.  You’ll learn new tips, tricks, and have a supportive community around you for 3 hours that will give you energy to last for weeks!

So, click the Register button now, take massive action to finding romance, companionship, passion and love, and get in at this price point before it closes!  You will get our insider’s secrets, and have everything to gain.  I’m psychotically optimistic for you, and I can’t wait to hear how much you love it!