Episode 92: Midore's Love Story - Finding Love after 50!

Episode 92: Midore's Love Story - Finding Love after 50!

This episode is a wonderful, inspiring story of Midore T, who lives in NYC. Midore saw Bela on a national NBC show called, "1st Look" and knew she needed to enlist some help with her dating life. She is now happily married to John, and tells her story in detail. 

Here is the form that Midore filled out to contact us:

Send us your question or what you're interested in:  

Hi Bela,
I contacted you once about 5 months ago this year via email (not from this form).
My first marriage ended in divorce over 10 years ago...and ever since I was busy building my career as an architect in NYC.   My last relationship was a long distance one with an Italian man in Italy, which lasted a bit over a year. At a time of its break-up, I began studying Italian, which I still am. I love all things Italian and travels to Italy a lot. In My recent vacation, i spent a week in Umbria, being in a Yoga Retreat and another week in Puglia (a heel of a boot of Italy).
I decided to contact you because I would love to meet men with a similar passion (in life, travel, culture, language) to have a solid relationship with and eventually to get married.  It's been challenging because I am a very young 50 yr. old, and easily mistaken for 30 something. While I am often attracted to younger men, it's not about their biological age, but about their spirit.  I love kids though I might not be able to have my own . So, meanwhile, I have two kitty girls.  Anyway, I am interested in a Coaching Package.  Please contact me to discuss this process.  Thanks & I look forward to hearing from you!
Midore


In this episode you will hear:  

  • Her BIG learning curve, and the massive mindset shifts Midore made around dating 

  • How she had an accountability partner for dating in her office (who was also a Smart Dating client), and their weekly dating meetings

  • How her first relationship ended up being with someone with 'red flags' and how we told her to end it (which ended perfectly)

  • How she dated on her own again after Raymond, and decided to come back to Smart Dating for a second round of coaching (and that was the magical round)

  • How she realized she had been attracted to 'narcissists'

  • After her 'reboot', how she had the WRONG time for her first date!   

  • What she suggested for her second date (and he said YES)

  • How they got engaged on October 13, and how COVID affected their wedding in Oaxaca Mexico

  • How she has made a career pivot, and is coaching architects to live their best lives!

You'll love this episode, and hear the beautiful Midore tell her story. And how love can come in an unexpected package!  You'll be inspired to dip your toe, or JUMP into the pool as she did.  It's never too late to find love :)

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Bela Gandhi