In this mini episode, you'll hear the most awesome, easy way to get over your sadness, grief, heartbreak & disappointment about your breakup! And it'll take you no time to do the exercise Bela recommends - listen NOW to amp up your healing!
Read MoreAccording to new studies, what is the #1 Relationship Killer (spoiler alert - it's NOT money or infidelity) according to 46% of divorcing couples? To answer the question, we invited Susan Guthrie, divorce attorney with over 30 years of experience and host of the "Divorce and Beyond" podcast to talk to us about it.
Read MoreIn this episode, Kate Anthony, Divorce Coach and Host of "The DIvorce Survival Guide Podcast" tells us about the 21st century narcissist.
Read MoreThis week's episode is a FUN one with Erin Keating who talks about her tips on being "Hotter Than Ever." Erin tells the story about how she blew up her life at age 50 and started to reinvent herself to become a more authentic version of myself TODAY (rather just living in the results of the goals she had for myself and my life 20 years ago). She also describes her unconventional dating "Rumspringa" the year following my separation (her year to explore and 'sow her wild oats'), and 4 things you can do to be Hotter than Ever.
Read MoreThis episode is a wonderful, inspiring story of Midore T, who lives in NYC. Midore saw Bela on a national NBC show called, "1st Look" and knew she needed to enlist some help with her dating life. She is now happily married to John, and tells her story in detail.
Read MoreBela has an amazing conversation with somatic coach Sarah Baldwin about getting "unstuck" and it's NOT what you expect. You will LOVE this episode, and learn SO much.
Read MoreBela has an incredible interview with one of her personal heroes, Megan Ramos, best-selling author of "The Essential Guide to Intermittent Fasting for Women."
Read MoreIn this episode, Holly Capps Cayce will tell you her ENTIRE love story which started with her parents' perfect marriage (leading to her marriage in her 20s which was NOT perfect). After two decades of dating narcissists, and lots of other characters, Holly took the leap and did the Smart Dating Academy "Love Lab Workshop" - which started her journey to finding David, the lid to her pot!
Read MoreThis episode will get you happy and PSYCHOTICALLY OPTIMISTIC! Bela interviews happiness coach Steffani LeFevour on how happiness, regardless of WHAT is happening, is only a few decisions away.
Read MoreArielle Ford is one of the best known love gurus out there, and returns to the Smart Dating Academy podcast to talk soulmates, how to connect with your soulmate even before you meet, what the quantum field is and how our soulmate is looking for US too.
Read MoreHave trouble with difficult conversations? Get tongue tied, get angry, or always give in? On a date with someone who won't stop talking? This episode will help you manage yourself so you can say almost anything in a way that brings the relationship to a better place. Bela interviews prolific author/TedX speaker & coach Sam Horn, whose new book "Talking on Eggshells" helps with everything you're afraid of saying.
Read MoreBela explains the TOP things to do to make a great first impression, and the WORST things that will get you thrown back to the pond immediately. Tune in for this gem-filled, high energy episode!
Read MoreThis episode is amazing, and Bela chats with the brilliant, prolific author Amy Ferris (author of "Mighty Gorgeous, A Little Book About Messy Love). You'll hear her best, grooviest advice, her love lessons, why people-pleasing is so detrimental, how to "Own Your Life", why "Self Love is Good Love is Grand Love is Love", and why we shouldn't waste time.
Read MoreIn this episode, I invited Andy, my husband of 26 years to join me on the podcast.
Read MoreThis love story is epic, from the way our client Lilah and Bela met (in a Limited store fitting room), to Lilah's Smart Dating journey to meeting the third and final love of her life, the handsome Dani.
Read MoreIn this episode, you will indeed learn the secrets to getting along with everyone better - from new dates, existing partners, colleagues, friends, kids and more! Gabrielle's YES method is unveiled, and Bela and her discuss strategic gems to using conflict to get ALL relationships to a better place!
Read MoreJanai Norman from GMA is an example of courage favoring the BOLD, and her story of love, dating and her career will inspire you. This episode is very special, because 5/5 is Janai's 5 year wedding anniversary, AND she is adding the 5th member to her family (found out she is pregnant with her third, and it's being covered in People Magazine this week)!
Read MoreOn this episode, relationship expert Damona Hoffman joins Bela to talk about dating and Chat GPT! How could/should we use it today? What are gender roles in dating in 2023? Who pays? What do we want vs. need? And how does empathy work in dating? Can you date with more empathy?
Read MoreIf you're feeling like dating is 'meh', this episode is for YOU! Bela goes through seven different things you can do today to change up your dating results - and the changes are small (and VERY EASY)!!
Read MoreRebecca Feinglos had more trauma than the average 'bear.' Listen to Rebecca tell her story, and one of her BEST tips to grieve a breakup/divorce that you can start TODAY.
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