Kathy & Ruben
Moving Forward
Best decision I've made, and man, has my life changed. I did the Love Lab (and if you're thinking of doing it, DO IT DO IT DO IT!), and I was so inspired that I enlisted their help for 12 months of coaching after that. Was I in for the time of my life. I flew to Chicago, and did a photo shoot that made me look as AWESOME as I am. Bela and Ilene gave me LOTS of advice on the clothes I should bring, and I bought new clothes. I listened to EVERYTHING they told me to do. Everything!
Dating The Right Way
We video dated MANY times (as Ilene had me do), and got to know each other DEEPLY even before we met for our first date in person. I knew that this was someone special, and the first time we met, he brought me yellow roses for friendship. And after we fell in love, the roses became 'red' -- until I told him that white is my favorite.
Finding The “One”
He is so attentive, wonderful, and makes me feel smart - and this was something I never felt in my marriage. He asks me for my opinions on things, and genuinely wants to know. He allows to me have my voice, and we have each others' backs. He asked my daughter for her blessing before he asked me to move in with him, and we are planning to have a 'commitment ceremony' soon. I always said "I don't want to be a nurse or a purse" to a man. And guess what? I needed hip replacement, and he insisted on taking care of me. He saw me at my worst, and we spent so much time together, just talking, getting to know each other, and it's been EASY. We've had speed bumps, of course, as we have adult children and grandchildren, but we have each others' backs.
Here's what I'll tell you - and I'll scream it from the mountain tops. Do the Dating Over 50 Love Lab. Listen to Bela and Ilene and Lindsay. Do what they tell you to do - and it might not happen right away, or as fast as it did for me, but keep doing it and it works. It really works. I'm living proof, and I hope my story inspired you - because I never thought it could happen to me. I'm happier than I've ever been, and hope you find the same love.
Love,
Kathy.