Through her dating process, Ruth realized her priorities had changed — she now wanted someone wonderful and available, not just casual company. Understanding that shift, she reached out to Bela after a friend told her about Smart Dating Academy. Ruth had attended one of Bela's workshops for C200 Professional Women, and after some back-and-forth, decided to begin date coaching with SDA to find love again.
Ruth's Story: Finding Unexpected Love in Her 70s After Loss
Ruth
A high-level executive full of life, Ruth didn't think love was still meant for her — until an unexpected international connection through Smart Dating Academy proved otherwise, in her 70s. After her beloved husband passed away years earlier, Ruth felt like the rug had been pulled out from under her, and she felt lost after the unexpected loss. Once she found her footing again, she decided to date casually, since finding a new partner wasn't a priority.
Ruth came to Chicago for her photoshoot and worked closely with her dating coach, Ilene, on perfecting her profile and identifying the characteristics she was truly looking for in a partner using the "elevator people" exercise. After launching on the apps, Ruth looked through the responses and talked to a few people. But one stood out.
His name was Tony, and there was an immediate curveball: he was traveling back and forth to his home country of Nigeria. Nevertheless, Tony and Ruth talked on the phone and FaceTimed every day for over four months before they met in person for the first time. Tony kept splitting his time between the U.S. and Nigeria, and the two kept their relationship going across the distance. Ruth loves Tony's integrity and knows she has found the lid to her pot. Ruth and Tony have lots of plans for the future together. Ruth's story is proof that no matter where you are in your career, and no matter your age, love can come to you in an unexpected package — with the right guidance.