This episode is something you have ASKED FOR! Flirting, building charisma & confidence is something we ALL want to get better at - whether we are single or coupled! I brought on one of my favorite experts, Kimmy Seltzer, who is a confidence therapist, flirting wingwoman and personal stylist. There is something for EVERYONE in this episode - woman or man!   

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Sandy Weiner, Bela's guest, is the founder of Last First Date, is a TEDx speaker, relationship coach, author and podcast host. This conversation covers AMAZING gems.

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This episode is AMAZING with Rachel Zar, renowned sex and relationship therapist. We discussed ALL of the things you need to know - and make sure you don't have little ears around you while listening to this!  

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Colin Egglesfield is an AMAZING actor who has walked the red carpets of Hollywood, starring in "Something Borrowed" with the beautiful Kate Hudson. He's also been on All My Children and Melrose Place, just to name a few. Colin is a VERY eligible bachelor, and came on the podcast to talk about what men like him are REALLY looking for in women (he's dated both actresses as well as us 'normal' girls too)!

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In this episode, I discuss TOXIC friendships/relationships and staying out of the "RED Zone" with therapist Dr. Elizabeth Lombardo who is Shaquille O'Neal's "Head Coach for Happiness", author of "Get Out of the Red Zone", and mental health expert on the TODAY Show, Good Morning America and the New York Times. 

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This episode with Dr. Michelle Roberts is about women, narcissistic abuse, why it happens, and how to heal from it (this is what she researched and practices today).

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This episode was a gem-filled chat with Stephanie Mansour about "Building Your Confidence at Every Age and Size!"

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This week's episode is an amazing chat with serial entrepreneur Rachel Graham, about finding love & purpose after betrayal.

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In this episode, I interview the inimitable Ashley Stahl (I watched her Ted talk and knew I had to interview her, stat).  Ashley Stahl is counterterrorism professional turned career coach and bestselling author of the book You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, Design Your Dream Career, and she's on a mission to help people get into a career they're excited about and aligned with.

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Bela has a REAL, in depth chat with celebrity divorce attorney Laura Wasser, who has represented celebrities like Kim Kardashian, Britney Spears, Dr. Dre, Kelly Clarkson, Jimmy Iovine, Maria Shriver, Stevie Wonder and the list goes on.

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This episode is PURE fire, and so perfect for Valentine's Day. Nancy Hala is a renowned entrepreneur, podcaster, who became a Smart Dater with Bela. Nancy found love online and got married in September 2021 to the most magical man ever (and they're both over 50). Nancy and her podcast partner Sheri invited Bela to be the 'dating coach' on their podcast -- coaching Nancy to find love. 

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Danielle who has created a life she LOVES at the age of 30.  She's a famed TV host, entrepreneur, podcaster, and a dear friend.  She has interviewed Taylor Swift, Michael B. Jordan, Helen Mirren -- and Larry King says that she 'has the ability to make people feel seen." 

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In this AMAZING episode, Bela interviews Jill Sherer Murray, author of best-selling inspirational book, "Big Wild Love."  Jill shares with us the story of her own searching, and finding her Big Wild Love (and her TEDx talk about it has MILLIONS of views). 

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