As Sadaf approached 30, the guys who came into her life were all narcissists, controlling, or not looking to settle down. Sadaf felt like she wasted years dating guys who were not right for her and caused her lots of heartache.
When Sadaf was 31 and after yet another failed relationship, she was very upset one day and wanted to find some funny videos on YouTube. She came across a video of a Steve Harvey show segment with Bela as a guest on the show. She immediately started researching Bela and SDA and reached out to start working with Bela and Ilene.
Sadaf soon realized that she needed to change her whole approach and ways when it comes to dating and finding her perfect match. She flew to Chicago and met Bela in person during the photo shoot. Bela and her team at SDA gave Sadaf the confidence that she has been lacking. SDA helped her build her profile, teach her how much time she should spend on the app, how to screen out red flags and most importantly not to lose hope.
In December 2021, Sadaf messaged a man who she thought would be a great match for her. She read over his profile with Ilene and analyzed it several times 😊 He was exactly what Sadaf was looking for. James is very family oriented and adventures, which matched the list she had made years ago of her perfect guy. He messaged her right back and they went on their first date.
