They ended up getting married and had 2 kids. Mindy lived a dream life raising her kids by day and working as a dance teacher in the evening. They started building a successful business together. After 5 years of a successful business he went through a very dark time with losing his dad and his job. Jason started pushing Mindy away and didn’t want anything to do with her. Mindy went through a phase of unworthiness and her gut started to tell her something was wrong. She learned he was having an affair with her best friend (who was now their office manager).
During the separation, Mindy had tunnel vision trying to figure it all out. She has never been on her own and now she was uprooted from her life to raise two kids and run a business on her own. Her main focus at the time was finding a place to live and survive.
Once she had settled down, Mindy’s mom insisted she start dating. Mindy had no idea what she was doing because she never really dated before. When she started to meet men, she saw the good, the bad, the ugly, and the scary!!! She ended up meeting someone WORSE than her ex-husband and dated him for 3 years.
During Covid, Mindy listened to Bela on Instagram every week. She related to every topic and learned so much about herself, her dating habits, and how she should date. At the end of 2021, she was sick and tired of being sick and tired, and decided to take the 'steering wheel' of her dating life. Mindy reached out to Bela, went to Chicago and SDA made Mindy feel like Cinderella for a day. She also did coaching with Lindsay and she helped Mindy set up a dating funnel. Mindy launched her dating profile on Match on March 7th, 2022.
The very same day Mark not only super liked her, but messaged her. He continued to pursue Mindy by messaging her, then by texting, and setting up a phone date. He set up the phone call for March 10th at 8:15pm. That night Mindy was on a date and there was a crazy snow storm. So, she couldn’t pick up the phone on her drive home because she was driving in a blizzard. He texted her saying he would like to set up another time to talk and the next one was set up for March 13th. Mindy learned from Lindsey during coaching to only spend about 20-30 minutes on facetime. Well, Mindy thought they were planning on talking on the phone and had taken a nap. She was surprised that he was facetiming her and that it wasn’t a regular phone call. Her hair was in a messy bun and her mascara was a bit smudged. They face-timed for an hour and had nothing but a great conversation!
