At 26, she met her first husband who she knew through someone she trusts and who came from a great family. They got engaged two years after they met and Andrea thought it was a fairytale. Her career in marketing was booming and they got married a year after they got engaged. Right after they got married Andrea saw a lot of red flags and they both realized that they never should have married. After 8 months of marriage they called it quits.
After the divorce, in her early 30s, Andrea traveled all over the world for her career, did a lot of self growth and therapy and really got to know herself and what she wanted. She also dated a lot and was on the dating apps. As soon as she started dating someone, she stopped dating anybody else.
In her mid 30s she met her second husband on Tinder. He was divorced and already had children. There were a lot of red flags that Andrea didn’t see, including a personality disorder. Within 1.5 years of meeting they got married and it was a disaster again. After the divorce, Andrea picked up the pieces of her life and gave herself some time before jumping into another relationship. She knew she had to do something different.
Andrea found Bela and SDA and loved the different approach. The photos, the profile, the whole SDA experience truly repositioned Andrea in the online dating world, but mostly repositioned her internal confidence. What was truly different about the experience was that Andrea got underneath the root cause of her dating issues, including her attachment style. With her updated dating profile, Andrea got a lot of great responses.
